Wherever you are in the relationship cycle you can benefit from sound advice. Living with a woman and trying to build a long-term relationship is a lot different than just dating. Also, not all relationships are the same. Partners respond in unique ways and you need to adjust your approach to get desired results.
So, today we share a fundamental principle that will help you to enjoy a lasting relationship.
This may not be entirely new to you but it is worthy of reinforcement. It is also important that you internalize the principle and apply it consistently. To help keep your relationship moving forward in a happy, healthy and fulfilling direction for both you and your partner, it is important to remember this Key To A Lasting Relationship.
Key To A Lasting Relationship
Men and women are different.
One solid foundation for a great relationship is that you and your partner become close friends.
That said, the friendship with your partner is not the same as the one you have with your male friends.
Do not confuse the two!
When you blur the lines and start treating her like one of the boys, you open the door to role confusion which in turn leads to latent or expressed conflict.
The trouble is that especially in the early stages of the relationship, your partner will play along or even encourage you to treat her like one of the boys. She wants to fit into your life seamlessly. Soon enough, innate needs and her natural tendencies rise to the surface and being one of the boys wears thin.
Avoid the unnecessary hassles. Make the distinction from the outset.
While you may remember and want to emphasize that she is not one of the boys at night, it is critical that you take it into consideration when you plan your leisure activities and entertainment as well.
Here is a spin off thought.
Guys can watch a ball game for what might seem like eons to her without making any comments that are of a “personal nature”. In other words, the comments would tend to be a commentary on the game and general as against a conversation. Statements are not directed at an individual.
Your partner would prefer to be acknowledged and spoken to directly. Women like to talk and they like to be noticed when they are in a room. Don’t treat your lady like “one of the boys” or your may live to regret it.
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